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I was dating this guy who was amazing but even though i truly liked him ALOT, I treated him badly. The things he told me I did while we were...

I understand why you are confused! Why would a guy stick around after you treated him so poorly? Sounds like he wants to be with you and is

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I just started dating someone new that I met online. When is it okay to ask if he is seeing other people? Should I ask how many?

We are so glad you asked this question, it's a common one. It sounds very early on and perhaps too soon to ask that question. He probably is

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It said on Commitment #2 about changing your pattern. Mine has always been to date unavailable guys, either emotionally, too busy at work or...

Dating unavailable men is so common, and I understand how frustrating and painful it is. We have many clients who have been locked in this pattern

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I have been dating this man for two months and he stopped calling me everyday. What do you think that means?

Often, when a man enters a comfort zone with you, they don't feel the need to call every day. As long as you feel that he is still connected to

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Why is it so difficult for a single woman in her 50's to find a man from her decade?

I'm glad you brought this up. Ok, let me start by saying that frankly, it does feel like the number of eligible men is shrinking, and yes, there

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how do I get in touch with you?

Are you interested in talking about becomming a client or do you want to ask us a free question?

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What do you do when the man you are interested is interested in your best girlfriend?

Oh honey, we feel for you! It hurts enough if your affection is not returned, and then even more if it's directed at someone close to you. So

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I have been spending time with a man who says we are just friends and he is no interested in a relashionship with me ever. Now he stays at my house...

He is "playing family" with you which is unfair to you and to your son. Why are you allowing him to sleep over even if it is in a separate

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I saw you interviewed on tv...why do you think the girl only liked the "slick" guy #3 but wasn't interested in the other two? What age...

We are so glad you saw the show. What she was dealing with is such a common situation. Humans are such complicated creatures and it's hard to say

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I just watched you on Nightline and am wondering about the girl on the show...why do you think she wasn't connecting with the guys you set her...

Glad you saw the show. As we have learned in our business that human nature is hard to predict and pin down. Chemistry either is there or not and

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I would like to take my relationship to the next level but first would like to know that my boyfriend's finances are sound. Advice?

That is practical and prudent. No one would blame you that you want to be sure he is stable. It's very important though that you are very

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My Question 10,000 for three dates?? These woman are nuts !! The one who gave it and the one who took it!!!

We understand what you are saying here. We want to make it clear that we work with most clients for a full year. Three hand selected

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I just moved back to my (large, metropolitan) hometown after graduating from the best womens' college in the country. I was lucky enough to get...

Congratulations! You have a wonderful education and have a great job. Take a moment and celebrate the fact that you are doing so well and are

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I just got divorced. When is a good time to start dating again?

This is a very personal feeling. It is all about how you feel. Are you emotionally ready to put yourself out there, realizing that it can be

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How can I get him to commit?

You need to say to yourself, why isn't he wanting to commit? Does he need more time? Is he incapable of committing? What does his past tell you

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