The 3 D’s: Drama, Demands and Depression

We got some very interesting advice from a really adorable 47 year old lawyer this week.

He said that if he is “uncomfortable or exhausted after a few dates, months, or whatever, he begins to imagine how it’s going to be in a few years.” He sited what he calls the “3 D’s” as the biggest turn-offs and indicators of future trouble with a woman.

They are as follows:

  • Drama
  • Demands
  • Depression

It’s so easy for all of us to slip into unproductive patterns, but my single friends: let’s be aware of how self-destructive these qualities can be.

The pressure of dating can make good people behave badly, but if it continues and build over time, it’s a clear sign the guy is going to want out.

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Jennifer was a Human Resources executive for 20 years in major corporations where she counselled senior executives and all levels of employees on achieving their full potential.  Her HR career included hiring, training, placing, coaching, and...

 

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