He said that if he is “uncomfortable or exhausted after a few dates, months, or whatever, he begins to imagine how it’s going to be in a few years.” He sited what he calls the “3 D’s” as the biggest turn-offs and indicators of future trouble with a woman.
They are as follows:
- Drama
- Demands
- Depression
It’s so easy for all of us to slip into unproductive patterns, but my single friends: let’s be aware of how self-destructive these qualities can be.
The pressure of dating can make good people behave badly, but if it continues and build over time, it’s a clear sign the guy is going to want out.



